Monday, January 11, 2016

Bila Nak Kahwin?



Perbualan sekitar 2 tahun lepas...


PM: bila nak kahwin ni

aku: haha..taktaula Prof (sengih2). sy tak confident

PM: knapa tak confident?

aku: sebab sy rasa banyak lagi sy tak achieve lg dlm hidup sy

PM: abis lepas kahwin tak bole achieve ke?

aku: ntahla Prof. sy fikir, nanti dah kahwin dah mcm2 nak kena fikir. nak fikir laki lagi.kalau ada anak lagi. nak belajo lg. rumah lagi..lagi satu sy sndiri pun kadang2 tak faham diri saya, ni pulak nak terima orang lain pastu nak faham orang lain. mcm kerja berat je

PM: fariza, dalam hidup ni tak semua benda jadi mcm yang kita plan. bila sampai waktunya kita kena buat semua benda tu serentak. kalau nak tunggu kita buat satu2 mgkin sampai bila pun kita belum tentu buat. yang penting masing-masing kena faham antara satu sama lain. tolak ansur. insyaallah semua nya mudah




p/s: PM  was my former supervisor during my master degree studies at UPM. one of the most amazing soul on earth I have ever met. She was diagnosed with cancer last year and knowing her, I know she's been doing just fine. We pray for your health and happiness,  always and may Allah ease everything for you and your family, Prof, Insyaallah. 

I love you Prof! (mata berhabuk)

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